Summary:
Thomas Hardy’s poem Ah, Are You Digging on My Grave? is a darkly ironic and satirical piece exploring themes of death, remembrance, and the indifference of the living. The poem is written as a dialogue between a deceased woman and an unknown grave-digger. The woman initially hopes that someone dear—perhaps a loved one or a relative—is tending to her grave out of remembrance and devotion. However, as the poem progresses, she realizes that neither her kin nor her former lover cares for her memory.
In a twist of irony, the “digger” turns out to be a dog, but rather than mourning her, the dog is merely burying a bone, having completely forgotten its former owner. The poem ends with a stark realization: after death, people move on, and the dead are soon forgotten. Hardy uses humor and irony to deliver a poignant message about human mortality and the fleeting nature of relationships.

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Question | Answer |
Poem Name | Ah, Are You Digging on My Grave? |
Poet | Thomas Hardy |
Year Published | 1914 |
Poem Type | Dramatic monologue |
Rhyme Scheme | ABAB |
Main Themes | Death, Forgetfulness, Irony, Social Indifference |
Tone | Dark Humor, Ironic, Satirical |
Poetic Devices Used | Irony, Dialogue, Rhetorical Questions |
Main Message | People, even loved ones, move on quickly after death. |